Couple Life Reflection Framework (CLRF)
A structured way for couples to reflect on their life together, surface needs, and design changes intentionally.
Frameworks for seeing cooperation and delivery more clearly.
Each system here is designed to be used in real work – not just read once and forgotten. The documentation includes checklists, self-assessment questions, and patterns you can apply directly in projects.
Together, the core systems form a deliberate sequence: HCS creates the conditions for cooperation, CDS makes commitments explicit and survivable, and 3SF turns those commitments into delivery and value.
HCS treats a team as a Human Cooperation System: a living system of people, expectations, and agreements. Instead of starting from process or tooling, HCS starts from needs and conditions:
The model provides a structured way to diagnose where cooperation is breaking down and to design better conditions and practices.
CDS focuses on the space where most projects quietly fail:
what people think they’ve agreed to versus what the system can actually support.
It provides structures for:
CDS is not a contract template or a delivery process. It is a design system for commitments — sitting between human cooperation (HCS) and execution (3SF).
CDS makes responsibility explicit before delivery begins — when change is still cheap and trust is still intact.
3SF is built for client–vendor software delivery, where product goals, contracts, and team reality often drift.
It focuses on three core relationships:
The framework helps you see where misunderstandings, misaligned incentives, or missing practices are likely to create problems – long before the project is “in trouble”.
SDL is a design lens for thinking about systems before they solidify into frameworks, processes, or tools. It focuses on how systems are defined, bounded, and justified – especially in complex, human-centered work.
Instead of jumping to solutions, SDL helps you slow down and ask better questions:
The lens is intentionally domain-agnostic. It can be applied to delivery frameworks, organizational models, AI-assisted workflows, governance mechanisms, or any system where legitimacy and accountability matter.
SDL is used to design, stress-test, and critique systems like HCS, CDS, and 3SF — not to replace them.
Related systems in different domains.
There are other systems under the 3in3.dev umbrella – for relationships, product practices, and decision-making. As they’re documented and published, they’ll appear here.
A structured way for couples to reflect on their life together, surface needs, and design changes intentionally.
A system for making estimation more transparent and aligned across roles. EAH turns estimates into a shared view of drivers, risks, and constraints – and can plug into existing backlogs to act as a lightweight project observability layer.
A map of core product and engineering practices, independent of any one framework – focused on function over buzzwords.